Aug 24, 2025

220+ Never Have I Ever Questions for Hen Parties

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Let the secrets spill and the bubbles flow. 🥂

Never Have I Ever is the ultimate ice-breaker that brings out the wild, the weird, and the wonderful in your bride squad. You don’t need props, a big budget, or complicated rules — just prosecco, good vibes, and a little honesty.

Whether you’re planning a villa party, a boozy brunch, or a post-boat unwind, these 100+ questions guarantee unforgettable laughs, bold confessions, and memories that’ll live forever (or at least until the hangover fades).

🥂 How to Play Never Have I Ever (Hen Party Edition)

Here’s how to turn up the fun without breaking a sweat 👇

🎯 The Basic Rules

  • Everyone grabs a drink 🍷 (cocktails, cava, or mocktails — your choice).

  • One person reads a statement: “Never have I ever…”

  • If you HAVE done it, you take a sip.

  • If not? Just laugh, squirm, or judge in silence 😏

  • Keep rotating turns or pass the phone around the circle.

🍾 What You’ll Need

  • At least 10–15 questions (but the more, the messier).

  • One drink per person (go bottomless if you’re brave 🍹).

  • A comfy setting: villa lounge, poolside, or even on the boat.

✨ Top Tips

  • Mix up the naughty, the tame, and the hilarious for a balanced vibe.

  • Keep it judgement-free: what happens at the hen, stays at the hen 💋

  • If someone’s shy, let them skip. The point is fun, not pressure.

✨ Extra Rule (For Maximum Laughs):

If you’re the only one drinking on a question… spill the tea. 🍵
Yep — if no one else drinks, you have to share the story behind it.

Ready? Click below for the ultimate list of questions 👇

Best Hen Party “Never Have I Ever” Questions

Ready to spill the secrets and turn the room into a giggle fest? 😏

These “Never Have I Ever” questions are tailored for hen parties — the perfect mix of naughty, embarrassing, wedding-themed, and just plain wild.

Whether you’re sipping cocktails in a villa 🏡, on a boat in Marbella 🛥️, or having a cosy night in, these questions will unlock laughter, stories, and maybe even a few confessions the bride-to-be never saw coming. 😅💍


💃 Hen Party Classics

Never have I ever…

  1. 👰 …been to a hen party before today

  2. 🍑 …seen a stripper or naked butler in real life

  3. 🕺 …gotten tipsy before 2 pm

  4. 🍾 …started a chant in public

  5. 📸 …posed for a photo I immediately regretted

  6. 🍾 …drunk straight from the Prosecco bottle

  7. 💌 …sent a flirty message to the wrong person

  8. 💃 …danced on a table

  9. 🐥 …been the youngest one at the hen

  10. 👵 …been the oldest one at the hen

  11. 📦 …wrapped something naughty as a gift

  12. 🎤 …sung karaoke in front of strangers

  13. 🎲 …played a drinking game and lost terribly

  14. 🎉 …spilled a drink all over myself on a night out

  15. 👠 …broken a heel or shoe while dancing

  16. 💄 …borrowed makeup from a stranger in the bathroom

  17. 📱 …posted something on social media drunk and deleted it the next morning

  18. 🛋️ …fallen asleep on the sofa before the party ended


💍 Wedding‑Themed Questions

Never have I ever…

  1. 💒 …worn a veil

  2. 🎤 …given a speech at a wedding

  3. 💐 …caught the bouquet

  4. 👭 …been a bridesmaid

  5. 🚫 …seen someone object at a wedding

  6. 🕺 …danced with the groom

  7. 🕵️‍♀️ …crashed a wedding

  8. ✈️ …attended a destination wedding

  9. 🌈 …been to a same‑sex wedding

  10. 💍 …been engaged (before now 👀)

  11. 👗 …worn a dress I totally regretted

  12. 🍽️ …pretended to love the wedding food

  13. 📝 …planned a wedding that never happened

  14. 🛏️ …hooked up with someone at a wedding

  15. 👰 …almost married the wrong person (yikes!)

  16. 👯 …been a bridesmaid more times than I can count

  17. ✈️ …attended a destination wedding just for the vibes

  18. 👰 …worn a wedding dress (not mine!)

  19. 💍 …been proposed to… and said no

  20. 🔥 …hooked up with someone from the bridal party

  21. 👀 …thought “this marriage won’t last” at a wedding I attended


💘 Dating & Relationship “Never Have I Ever” Questions

Never have I ever…

  1. 💘 …fallen in love at first sight

  2. 😬 …used a fake excuse to leave a date early

  3. 🔥 …had a one‑night stand that turned into a relationship

  4. 🫣 …gone through someone’s phone

  5. 📱 …matched with someone I knew in real life on a dating app

  6. 👻 …ghosted someone I was actually into

  7. 💬 …sent a flirty text to the wrong person

  8. 💔 …stayed in a relationship way past the expiry date

  9. 🎭 …pretended to like something just to impress them

  10. 💅 …dated someone purely for the lifestyle

  11. 🧢 …lied about being in a relationship to get out of something

  12. 🥲 …said “I love you” and instantly regretted it

  13. 🧨 …had a major fight in public

  14. 🤐 …kept a huge secret from someone I was dating

  15. 💍 …been engaged (and called it off)

  16. 🫶 …gone on more than one date in a single day

  17. 🛏️ …slept with an ex after the breakup

  18. 💌 …written a love letter (or email… or drunk text) I regret

  19. 📅 …gone on a date just for the free food

  20. 🤡 …stalked someone online before a first date

  21. 🎭 …pretended to be less interested to seem “cooler”

  22. 🕵️‍♀️ …looked up an ex’s new partner out of curiosity

  23. 🚩 …ignored red flags because the sex was great

  24. 🧯 …dated two people at the same time (and they didn’t know)

  25. 🧼 …ghosted someone and ran into them later

  26. 🥺 …forgiven someone I shouldn’t have

  27. 🥂 …kissed someone else while in a relationship

  28. 👯‍♀️ …had a crush on my friend’s ex

  29. 🙃 …dated someone just because I was bored

  30. 😈 …used Tinder or Bumble while on holiday for “fun”

  31. 👀 …checked someone’s phone while they were asleep

  32. 🧢 …pretended I was single when I wasn’t


😈 Sexy & Naughty “Never Have I Ever” Questions

Never have I ever…

  1. 🍯 …used food during sex

  2. 🎭 …tried sexy role‑play

  3. 💌 …sent a naughty text or pic

  4. 📸 …sent a sexy selfie to the wrong person

  5. 💦 …faked an orgasm

  6. 🚗 …had sex in a car

  7. 🏖️ …had sex on the beach

  8. 🛁 …had sex in the shower

  9. 🧣 …been tied up — or tied someone up

  10. 🔇 …hooked up while someone else was in the room

  11. 🩲 …worn someone else’s underwear

  12. 🎶 …danced naked for someone

  13. 🥵 …watched porn with a partner

  14. 😳 …said the wrong name in bed

  15. 🕯️ …used candles or massage oils in the bedroom

  16. 🧸 …used toys with a partner

  17. 🐾 …had a one‑night stand

  18. 🛏️ …slept with someone from work

  19. 👯‍♀️ …kissed more than one person in the same night

  20. 💃 …given a lap dance

  21. 🪑 …received a lap dance

  22. 🪩 …been to a sex club or party

  23. 🧑‍🏫 …had a crush on a teacher, boss, or mentor

  24. 🥂 …hooked up at a wedding

  25. 🍾 …had sex while tipsy… and regretted it

  26. 🤯 …tried something I said I’d never do… and loved it

  27. 🔐 …had a secret friends‑with‑benefits arrangement

  28. 📹 …made a homemade sex tape

  29. 🎭 …lied about how many people I’ve slept with

  30. 🍓 …used whipped cream or chocolate in bed

  31. 👩‍💼 …fantasised about my boss

  32. 🔍 …Googled “how to be better in bed”

  33. 🤐 …kept a sexy secret from all my friends


🌍 Travel

Never have I ever…

  1. 🧳 …been on a spontaneous trip

  2. 🗺️ …got completely lost in a foreign city

  3. 🏨 …slept in a hostel with strangers

  4. 🌅 …watched the sunrise in another country

  5. 🛂 …lost my passport

  6. 👙 …worn a bikini in the snow

  7. 🌴 …had a holiday romance

  8. 🛬 …missed a flight (oops)

  9. 🍜 …eaten something weird just to be polite

  10. 🧳 …packed the night before the trip (chaos)

  11. 🧭 …used “Maps” in every single country

  12. 📸 …travelled just for the photo

  13. 🚿 …stayed somewhere without hot water

  14. 🐘 …ridden an elephant / camel / donkey

  15. 🌍 …travelled solo

  16. 💸 …spent way too much at the airport duty‑free

  17. 😩 …got food poisoning abroad

  18. 🧺 …washed clothes in the sink at the hotel

  19. 🗨️ …used Google Translate to flirt

  20. 🛥️ …thrown up on a boat

  21. 🗣️ …pretended to speak a language I don’t know


😳 Most Embarrassing “Never Have I Ever” Moments

Never have I ever…

  1. 🚿 …peed in the shower or pool

  2. 🚽 …clogged a toilet at someone else’s house

  3. 🤭 …farted and blamed it on a pet

  4. 📞 …drunk‑called an ex or crush

  5. 💤 …fallen asleep at work

  6. 😅 …laughed so hard I peed

  7. 🧊 …said something awkward mid‑hookup

  8. 🍲 …eaten someone else’s food from the fridge

  9. 👶 …walked in on my parents

  10. 🛏️ …wet the bed as an adult

  11. 🛑 …been rejected publicly

  12. 🧾 …lied on a CV or job application

  13. 👶 …thought a friend’s baby was ugly

  14. 🍽️ …stolen food off someone’s plate without asking

  15. 📱 …sent a message to the wrong group chat

  16. 🧑‍⚖️ …been caught gossiping about someone

  17. 🔒 …locked myself out of the house

  18. 🫣 …tripped and fell in public

  19. 💬 …lied to get out of a social event

  20. 👩‍🍳 …burnt something really simple while cooking

  21. 🧼 …realised mid‑date I forgot to brush my teeth

  22. 💄 …realised halfway through the day my makeup was a total mess

  23. 🚓 …got a speeding ticket

  24. 💸 …had a negative bank balance

  25. 🚔 …been arrested — even just for a night!

  26. 🎁 …re‑gifted something I didn’t like

  27. 💔 …flirted with someone who was married

  28. 📄 …lied on my résumé


🌸 Tame & Chill “Never Have I Ever”

Never have I ever…

  1. 🍦 …eaten a whole tub of ice cream in one go

  2. 📺 …binged an entire TV series in one weekend

  3. 🎤 …sung karaoke (or screamed it…)

  4. 🎬 …cried during a Disney movie

  5. 💅 …dyed my hair just to change my vibe

  6. 🐴 …ridden a horse

  7. 🏍️ …ridden a motorcycle

  8. ✂️ …cut my own hair

  9. 🐶 …talked to my pet like it’s a human

  10. 🎭 …acted in a school play or talent show

  11. 📚 …read a book in one sitting

  12. 🍕 …eaten pizza for breakfast

  13. ☕ …stayed in pyjamas all day

  14. 📷 …posted a selfie and deleted it 10 minutes later

  15. 🥗 …pretended to like a salad I hated

  16. 🧘 …tried meditation (and fell asleep)

  17. 🧼 …bought something just because it was aesthetically pleasing

  18. 🎨 …done a paint‑and‑sip night (wine and art = 💅)

  19. ☎️ …called in sick just to stay in bed

  20. 💆 …got a massage and fell asleep during it

  21. 🧖‍♀️ …had a full‑on spa day at home


🎭 Themed Questions

Never have I ever…

  1. 🎢 …been to a Disney theme park

  2. 📚 …read all the Harry Potter books (twice)

  3. 🧙‍♂️ …waited for a Hogwarts letter past age 11

  4. 🎮 …had a crush on a cartoon or game character

  5. 🎬 …cried watching a Pixar movie

  6. 🧝‍♀️ …thought Legolas or Aragorn was hot (Lord of the Rings squad)

  7. 🧟‍♀️ …imagined surviving a zombie apocalypse

  8. 🪄 …done a tarot reading or used a crystal to “cleanse energy”

  9. 🧗‍♀️ …climbed a mountain

  10. 🛸 …seen a UFO (or something I couldn’t explain)

  11. 🚀 …flown in a private jet

  12. 🏥 …donated blood or an organ


🏆 Once‑in‑a‑Lifetime (or Never)

Never have I ever…

  1. 💰 …won the lottery

  2. 🦸‍♀️ …saved someone’s life

  3. 📺 …been on live TV

  4. 🎤 …given a TED Talk

  5. 🧬 …been part of a scientific study

  6. 💼 …been mistaken for a celebrity

  7. 🗳️ …run for political office (even as a joke)

  8. 🎥 …appeared as an extra in a movie


🔮 Soul‑Searching & Spiritual Questions

Never have I ever…

  1. 🔮 …consulted tarot or oracle cards

  2. 🌌 …done a past‑life regression

  3. 📖 …consulted my Akashic Records

  4. 🧘‍♀️ …gone on a silent retreat or meditation weekend

  5. 🌿 …attended a cacao ceremony

  6. 🔥 …done breathwork until I cried or laughed

  7. 💭 …manifested something with a vision board

  8. 🌑 …participated in a full‑moon ritual

  9. 📿 …worn crystals for energy protection

  10. 🧙‍♀️ …had my aura read

  11. 🌬️ …used sage or palo santo to “cleanse” a space

  12. ☯️ …read about or practised chakras or energy healing

  13. 🧎‍♀️ …done more than three types of yoga

  14. 🍄 …had a “spiritual” experience with psychedelics

  15. 🔁 …seen angel numbers and thought it meant something

  16. 🌠 …had my birth chart fully read

  17. 🔭 …checked a compatibility chart before dating someone

  18. 💫 …blamed Mercury retrograde for my bad day

  19. 🌕 …charged my crystals under a full moon

  20. 🌿 …used flower essences or homeopathy for energy healing

  21. 🔮 …been told I’m a “lightworker” or “old soul”

  22. ✨ …felt someone’s “energy” before they even spoke

  23. 🔮 …been to a psychic or medium

  24. 🧘‍♀️ …had an out‑of‑body experience

  25. 🌈 …felt like I left my body during breathwork or yoga

  26. 🪶 …received a “sign from the universe” and followed it

  27. 🔮 …made a life decision based on a spiritual message

  28. 🌌 …dreamt something that came true

  29. 🐍 …believed I was going through a Kundalini awakening

  30. 👽 …felt like I wasn’t from this planet

  31. 🌀 …joined a women’s circle or sacred gathering


⚠️ Deep, Dark & Risky

Never have I ever…

  1. 💔 …cheated on someone

  2. 🔁 …slept with a friend’s ex

  3. 🕵️‍♂️ …been the alibi for a lying friend

  4. 💬 …told someone “I love you” without meaning it

  5. 👭 …convinced a friend to dump someone

  6. 💍 …regretted getting married

  7. 🧒 …wished I didn’t have kids

  8. 🔒 …hid a big life decision from my family

  9. 😶 …kept a secret that would ruin someone’s relationship


💌 Final Thoughts: Let the Games (and the Giggling) Begin

Whether you’re sipping prosecco in pyjamas, dancing on tables in Marbella, or sharing secrets under the stars — Never Have I Ever is more than a game. It’s a way to bond, to laugh, and to create the kind of stories you’ll be retelling for years.

  • ✨ Play it tame.

  • 🔥 Play it wild.

  • 💖 But most of all — play it together.


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👉 Plan your hen do with us – and let’s make those “I never”s unforgettable.

Cheers to the chaos 🍾

– The My Marbella Hen Party Team

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